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1a. Re: Hi all
From: Kelly
1b. Re: Hi all
From: Brenda
1c. Re: Hi all
From: Kelly
1d. Re: Hi all
From: Brenda
1e. Re: Hi all
From: Kelly
2.1. Re: falling back into old habits...help!!
From: Kelly
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1a. Re: Hi all
Posted by: "Kelly" kdies@verizon.net kellone2
Date: Fri Jun 19, 2009 7:32 pm ((PDT))
I'm 15 months almost post-op and have not developed lactose intolerant. Not all people do. I drink milk and eat tons of cheese
Kelly
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From: Brenda <brendac313@yahoo.com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:27:36
To: afterweightloss<afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I tried a banana form from the hospital pharmacy...it was horrid. Now I'm afraid to try the others. This whole process is starting to scare me to death, and I haven't had the surgery yet. I just don't know what to do. I need it and it would help me, if it doesn't kill me first. I don't think I could stand being lactose intolerant and does it get better after surgery if you get that way. I haven't went to GNC yet but I'm not sure what to look for if I do.
brenda
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1b. Re: Hi all
Posted by: "Brenda" brendac313@yahoo.com brendac313
Date: Fri Jun 19, 2009 7:47 pm ((PDT))
Oh, thank you for saying that. I so needed to hear it.
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From: Kelly <kdies@verizon.net>
To: After WLS <afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Friday, June 19, 2009 9:31:24 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I'm 15 months almost post-op and have not developed lactose intolerant. Not all people do. I drink milk and eat tons of cheese
Kelly
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-----Original Message-----
From: Brenda <brendac313@yahoo. com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:27:36
To: afterweightloss<afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Subject: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I tried a banana form from the hospital pharmacy...it was horrid. Now I'm afraid to try the others. This whole process is starting to scare me to death, and I haven't had the surgery yet. I just don't know what to do. I need it and it would help me, if it doesn't kill me first. I don't think I could stand being lactose intolerant and does it get better after surgery if you get that way. I haven't went to GNC yet but I'm not sure what to look for if I do.
brenda
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1c. Re: Hi all
Posted by: "Kelly" kdies@verizon.net kellone2
Date: Fri Jun 19, 2009 7:57 pm ((PDT))
I wouldn't take anything to heart. Each and everyone of us are different. Some have had post op problems, some haven't. I've had no issues, problems or side effects. Besides this dang head hunger lol but everyone gets that, post or pre. You'll do fine. And even if you become lactose intolerant, then you will deal with it ok!
~Kel
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From: Brenda <brendac313@yahoo.com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:36:50
To: <afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
Oh, thank you for saying that. I so needed to hear it.
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From: Kelly <kdies@verizon.net>
To: After WLS <afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Friday, June 19, 2009 9:31:24 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I'm 15 months almost post-op and have not developed lactose intolerant. Not all people do. I drink milk and eat tons of cheese
Kelly
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-----Original Message-----
From: Brenda <brendac313@yahoo. com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:27:36
To: afterweightloss<afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Subject: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I tried a banana form from the hospital pharmacy...it was horrid. Now I'm afraid to try the others. This whole process is starting to scare me to death, and I haven't had the surgery yet. I just don't know what to do. I need it and it would help me, if it doesn't kill me first. I don't think I could stand being lactose intolerant and does it get better after surgery if you get that way. I haven't went to GNC yet but I'm not sure what to look for if I do.
brenda
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1d. Re: Hi all
Posted by: "Brenda" brendac313@yahoo.com brendac313
Date: Fri Jun 19, 2009 8:08 pm ((PDT))
I've had plenty of surgeries, but they were all necessary. This is the first time I have elected to have one. I think it would be easier if a doctor had told me I had to...at least in my mind. They all say I am doing the right thing for the right reasons...but still.
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From: Kelly <kdies@verizon.net>
To: After WLS <afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Friday, June 19, 2009 9:57:26 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I wouldn't take anything to heart. Each and everyone of us are different. Some have had post op problems, some haven't. I've had no issues, problems or side effects. Besides this dang head hunger lol but everyone gets that, post or pre. You'll do fine. And even if you become lactose intolerant, then you will deal with it ok!
~Kel
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-----Original Message-----
From: Brenda <brendac313@yahoo. com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:36:50
To: <afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
Oh, thank you for saying that. I so needed to hear it.
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From: Kelly <kdies@verizon. net>
To: After WLS <afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Sent: Friday, June 19, 2009 9:31:24 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I'm 15 months almost post-op and have not developed lactose intolerant. Not all people do. I drink milk and eat tons of cheese
Kelly
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-----Original Message-----
From: Brenda <brendac313@ yahoo. com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:27:36
To: afterweightloss< afterweightlosss urg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Subject: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I tried a banana form from the hospital pharmacy...it was horrid. Now I'm afraid to try the others. This whole process is starting to scare me to death, and I haven't had the surgery yet. I just don't know what to do. I need it and it would help me, if it doesn't kill me first. I don't think I could stand being lactose intolerant and does it get better after surgery if you get that way. I haven't went to GNC yet but I'm not sure what to look for if I do.
brenda
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1e. Re: Hi all
Posted by: "Kelly" kdies@verizon.net kellone2
Date: Fri Jun 19, 2009 8:12 pm ((PDT))
Ok then I will tell you that you have to. For your health physically and mentally ;)
Did that help?
Think of all the positive after ;)
Its great!
~Kel
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From: Brenda <brendac313@yahoo.com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 20:08:14
To: <afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I've had plenty of surgeries, but they were all necessary. This is the first time I have elected to have one. I think it would be easier if a doctor had told me I had to...at least in my mind. They all say I am doing the right thing for the right reasons...but still.
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From: Kelly <kdies@verizon.net>
To: After WLS <afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Friday, June 19, 2009 9:57:26 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I wouldn't take anything to heart. Each and everyone of us are different. Some have had post op problems, some haven't. I've had no issues, problems or side effects. Besides this dang head hunger lol but everyone gets that, post or pre. You'll do fine. And even if you become lactose intolerant, then you will deal with it ok!
~Kel
Sent from her BlackBerry
-----Original Message-----
From: Brenda <brendac313@yahoo. com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:36:50
To: <afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
Oh, thank you for saying that. I so needed to hear it.
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From: Kelly <kdies@verizon. net>
To: After WLS <afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Sent: Friday, June 19, 2009 9:31:24 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I'm 15 months almost post-op and have not developed lactose intolerant. Not all people do. I drink milk and eat tons of cheese
Kelly
Sent from her BlackBerry
-----Original Message-----
From: Brenda <brendac313@ yahoo. com>
Date: Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:27:36
To: afterweightloss< afterweightlosss urg ery@yahoogroups. com>
Subject: [After Weight Loss Surgery] Hi all
I tried a banana form from the hospital pharmacy...it was horrid. Now I'm afraid to try the others. This whole process is starting to scare me to death, and I haven't had the surgery yet. I just don't know what to do. I need it and it would help me, if it doesn't kill me first. I don't think I could stand being lactose intolerant and does it get better after surgery if you get that way. I haven't went to GNC yet but I'm not sure what to look for if I do.
brenda
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2.1. Re: falling back into old habits...help!!
Posted by: "Kelly" kdies@verizon.net kellone2
Date: Fri Jun 19, 2009 9:56 pm ((PDT))
shopping is ALOT more fun and EXPENSIVE.... ;)
My husband said he liked me heavier... I was cheaper then lol
Kelly
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From: Sheila Derrwaldt
To: afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, June 18, 2009 8:09 AM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] falling back into old habits...help!!
No, I don't get more attention from guys! I'm 57!!! No one looks at middle-aged women. :) But, I notice that people don't notice me like they did when I was heavy. I just fit in better every place, and feel so much healthier and shopping is a lot easier. I would say more confidence because of less shame.
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From: "Pearson, John" <john.pearson@hp.com>
To: "afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com" <afterweightlosssurgery@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Wednesday, June 17, 2009 4:40:20 PM
Subject: RE: [After Weight Loss Surgery] falling back into old habits...help!!
So from someone that has had the surgery can you tell me what is different , of course besides being littler, in your life for example are you getting more attention from the guys or more self confidence what is different over all?
John Pearson
From: afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com [mailto:afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of Sheila Derrwaldt
Sent: Wednesday, June 17, 2009 1:29 PM
To: afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] falling back into old habits...help! !
Hi Karen,
I agree 100% and I think the doctors and pre-surgerical psychologist told us the same thing. It's very true. I'd like to add that if a large part of someone's relationship is food centered and eating out and things like that, it's going to be rough going for some time because the last thing a post-op wants to do is eat. You want to lose!
Talk it all out in advance if you can.
Sheila
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From: Karen Cortez <kikae1@comcast. net<mailto:kikae1% 40comcast. net>>
To: afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com<mailto:afterweight losssurgery% 40yahoogroups. com>
Sent: Wednesday, June 17, 2009 12:08:24 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] falling back into old habits...help! !
Hello,
I have been married for 15 years, together for 18 years. We are still going like we always have. He is concerned about my weight because I have gained so much back, but, other than that there is no real problems. I will tell you what my surgeon told us at the meeting. If you have a good marriage it can get better, if you have a bad marriage it will probably get worse. If you figure some men think of a fat spouse as SAFE then you understand. Also the new attention from other men or women can make the current partner feel very insecure and it is hard sometimes to make them understand that it is just what it is and if you are truly happy then it will not hurt the relationship.
Karen Cortez
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From: "Brenda S." <cherokee_bren_ 324@yahoo. com>
To: afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, June 17, 2009 10:55:12 AM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] falling back into old habits....help! !
Is there anyone out there that has had success with staying married and improving their marriage after surgery? I have just been approved for surgery and will be celebrating my 1st anniversary this weekend. All this talk is very discouraging to me! I would rather be overweight with the love of my life because we are very happy than to be at a much lower weight and be miserable. I am very healthy other than my weight so I guess I am on the fence right now!
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From: Janet Kilpatrick < pinkie1153@yahoo. com >
To: afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, June 17, 2009 9:37:09 AM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] falling back into old habits...help! !
Gosh, that sounds so much like what I am going through right now. It just makes me want to cry. I told my husband when I got the surgery (and I truly meant it) that we were not going to be among the stastitics.
But I just can't take much more.
Janet
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From: Victoria <afterwls@aol. com>
To: afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups.. com
Sent: Tuesday, June 16, 2009 10:09:19 PM
Subject: Re: [After Weight Loss Surgery] falling back into old habits...help! !
in my experience, I became a 'born again healthy person'. My ex-spouse was not interested in exercising, or losing any weight. He wanted the status quo to remain the same, that is, a nice 'safe' wife who didn't rock the lifestyle boat. When I lost weight and started dressing in a stylish, if not sexy manner, he protested by being verbally abusive and avoiding me, when he wasn't trying to sabotage my diet. He started drinking more (he already had a drinking problem). In short, he couldn't deal with the new me, and we grew apart, and finally, I gave up and left (but not until after 24 marriage counselling sessions).
-Vic
group founder
--- In afterweightlosssurg ery@yahoogroups. com, "Pearson, John" <john.pearson@ ...> wrote:
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> I am having issues in my marriage as well. My wife had the surgery in July of last year.
> Could you elaborate on "putting a strain on my marriage" what problems are you having if I'm not getting to personal.
>
> John Pearson
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